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vrijdag 15 juli 2011

DEEP THROATING



Deep throating a partner who the giver thinks or feels will ignore the signs of someone being uncomfortable during oral sex is never a good idea. Feeling relaxed and having trust in a partner is an important necessity for deep throating. Practicing on an impatient man isn't helpful or enjoyable for either partners!

Patience and practice are needed as it takes time to learn the technique. Controlling the gag reflex is thought to be impossible but it isn't.

When someone is learning to deep throat they need to be in charge. Being on top of their partner will help them to stay in control and give them the ability to set the pace of their deep throating session.

To begin with his penis must be really well lubricated to allow it to slide in much more comfortably! Saliva will do but there are some great flavoured lubricant available that will last longer and lubricate much better. Most lubricants are suitable for oral sex.

Position is important as well. The '69' position is best for beginners with their partner on his back and them lying on top of his stomach using their elbows for support.


Practice...

Controlling the gag reflex is thought to be impossible but with a bit of time, patience and practice most people can soon take a penis without gagging.

Breathing technique is another necessity to master. Breathing through the nose is the only obvious way. Knowing when and how often someone needs to draw breath is going to determine their technique so it is essential to practice before trying a real erect penis..

Its a good idea to try practicing alone to begin with by using a tooth brush at first to master the gag reflect. Then moving onto a dildo to get used to something bigger and then onto a partner's erect penis. No one should put themselves into the unknown only to have an unpleasant experience by being overly confident.

Mastering the gag reflect:

Tilting the head back to line up their throat. Flattening the back of the tongue and opening the throat as if someone would when they do a good wide yawn.

With a finger placed flat on the middle of the tongue, gently and slowly slide it further back as far as comfortable then withdrawing to take breath through the nose. Repeating the same process but allowing either the finger or a toothbrush to go a little deeper each time as far as they are comfortable with. When the gag reflex is felt to begin, hold the toothbrush still in that position, relax and breathe slowly in a relaxed controlled manner. Withdraw the finger and try again keeping a count of how long it can be held in position before it becomes difficult. As the count gets higher the finger can try going a little deeper each time. When the gag reflex is mastered with a finger it is a good idea to progress to dildo. It does take time and its unlikely anyone will master it in a just a few attempts. When comfortable to move onto a dildo it is best to buy one that has a good length, a resonable girth and that can be gripped at the end of it with ease when practicing the deep throat technique. Using a dildo that has a scrotal moulding to it is best for a good grip. It is well advised never to use anything else or go beyong comfort zones! Remember that when someone is deep throating a real penis is taken down the throat MOMENTARILY for a couple of seconds so don't panic by thinking it is going to rest in the throat for any longer than can be coped with. That is why it is important for the guy deep throating being in control and having well placed trust in his partner!


Beginning with a dildo or a real hard cock... Much like before putting their head back slightly to extend and straighten the neck makes it easier for his cock to slide deep and keeps the throat in line.

Putting the tip of the tongue just over the bottom lip, then extending the tongue slighty and helping to flatten the back of the throat. Flattening the back of the tongue as best and as comfortably as possible can open the throat (as if yawning).

Taking a deep breath, slowly sliding his penis along the tongue and into the mouth. If the performer start to feel the gag reflex to kick in they stop and keep their partners penis in that position as long as possible then withdraw it. By repeating this they will be able to take his cock deeper. Eventually they will be able to take his entire length down their throat.

When at the point of taking the head of his penis into the actual throat there is a little bit of resistance. A bit of a push and use of the tongue to bring his cock deeper in usually does the trick. If the gag reflex is felt at this point, as before his cock is kept in position until the sensation has passed. If the guy giving head can resist withdrawing his partners penis, extending his tongue out a bit further and then pull it back into his mouth bringing his cock with it and beyond the gag reflex.

1 opmerking:

  1. I thought I'd mention that the x-ray of deep throating is anatomically inaccurate. You can choke a guy to death if you stick your cock down his windpipe (as in the x-ray). It's the back channel (unintended pun) or oesophagus that takes the cock. Plenty of room and no obstacles like the vocal cords in the windpipe.
    This x-ray has been doing the rounds on the gay sites for ages. Fortunately 99% of us don't know the difference between one channel and the other!
    You have some great photos on your blog and very hot too! Cheers

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